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2. Talk the talk
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First gay experience was with a 45 year old
Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay
Although when a child you have those moments you show your friend your dick and what not, this is my first real sexually experience with a another male. First off let me declare I consider myself straight, although technically I have been with men so I guess that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around 13. I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.
When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don’t believe that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in high educational facility I was 17. That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the loss of my virginity from both. Early that year in the fall, I first missing my virginity to a teen. Then when spring came I finally decided to start looking into doing it.
I could not risk looking for someone I know out of fear that people would discover out so I never even consi
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering alternative gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t fret. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ people, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve lay together an ever-growing list of Diverse terminology.
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- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
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Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and truthful communication. It’s key
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will contemplate bottoming at some day. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can receive douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do operate amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased chance of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w