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LastweekI took to my Facebook wall to repost this HuffPost article about 13 straight male German stars kissing for a GQ photo shoot to disagree homophobia and intolerance. Some gay men posted and sent me messages stating that they establish it erotic to watch two unbent men kiss -- sometimes more so than watching two gay men embrace. Some said they found this as erotic as two women kissing might be to a straight guy. This got me wondering: Why are some gay men sexually turned on by straight men? Some even prefer unbent men over homosexual men!
Before I acquire readers insisting that not all queer men are attracted to straight men, let me tell I know that. I know, too, that it's politically incorrect to confess that there are gay men who are attracted to and pursue linear men, thanks to the myth that we gay men will pursue anyone who's male, ignoring social norms and acceptable etiquette. Of course this is ridiculous. In truth, it's so ridiculous that I performed some stand-up comedy on the topic, which you can see here:
Because of the projection from many a threatened straight male -- that every gay man is going to wish to hit on him -- male lover men have silenced themselves on this topic
GB+ Clinic
The GB+ Clinic at Chalmers Centre is for all men who contain sex with men, regardless of how you identify – gay, straight, multi-attracted , pansexual; it doesn’t matter to us. If you’re a man who has sex with men, you are welcome at this clinic.
Clinic runs as a drop-in service from 4pm to 6.30pm every Wednesday and will offer a full range of tests, including HIV testing, and offers and treatment for sexually transmitted infections – you will be able to access the results of your tests through our automated results line.
Please undertake not arrive before 4pm, tickets will be available in the foyer at this time, you will then be registered at reception before seeing the triage nurse. Examples of some things we can view you for:
- You own symptoms of an STI
- You have had a positive prove for an STI and would appreciate treatment
- You have been notified by a recent sexual boyfriend they have tested positive for an STI
- You would enjoy routine testing for STIs without symptoms
- You would like suggestions on vaccinations for HPV, Hepatitis A/B or MPox
PrEP:
- You are interested in starting PrEP and would some more information
- You are taking PrEP from another clinic and have moved to
Since 1985 Joe Kort has been a psychotherapist, specializing in intimacy and connection problems with heterosexual, queer and lesbian clients, and offering workshops for couples, singles and gay men.
He graduated from Michigan Articulate University with dual majors in Psychology and Social Work. At Wayne Express University, he earned a Master's in Social Labor (MSW), then a Master's (MA) in Psychology.
Joe's articles have appeared in The Detroit Free Press, Between the Lines, The Detroit News, The Oakland Squeeze, The Royal Oak Daily Tribune, the Royal Oak Mirror, and other local and national publications. Besides providing therapy for individual and couples, he conducts a number of groups and workshops for queer men. He is an adjunct professor at Wayne State University teaching Same-sex attracted and Lesbian Studies in the School of Social Perform Master's Program.
Written from Dr. Joe Kort’s perspective as an openly gay psychotherapist who has counseled thousands of sexually confused men over the years, Straight Guise shows how this phenomenon crosses all ethnicities and cultures.
More about dr.KortWhat Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his research into what straight women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next logical step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and draw out a genuine list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the gay and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities offer in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The identical comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
What gay and bi men say they want
Just like straight women and unbent men, “we enjoy be